With millions of people moving every year within the United States, one wonders how everyone gets comfortable in their new surroundings.
Most certainly, everyone has their own way, but today we want to share this seven-day approach, which seems to work wonders!
First day
On your first day, do some organizing at home but do not try to do it all; instead, go for a walk and explore the neighborhood. Take this time to decide to open yourself up to this new experience and to welcome the new.
Understanding what’s around you will make you feel safe and excited about the new possibilities.
Second day
Get a bit braver and try the subway or bus services to understand how these work. Get familiar with the city and how to get there.
Third day
Do a reality check. Acknowledge that your new community has good things but maybe also not so good ones. Every place is the same and at the same time it isn’t, so find out how safe the area is, how traffic works, how the weather treats it, and focus on the good.
One piece of advice: do not believe what others say; find out for yourself what the truth is. You may discover this place is your idea of paradise.
Fourth day
Absorb and enjoy the differences between this place and your old home. Every city has something great and unique to offer.
Fifth day
Get in touch with people you know who live around. Before moving, contact friends, colleagues, or family who live near your new community. Ask them about their favorite places, activities, and tips.
Sixth day
Move around. Be it by car, bus, or subway, venture into new parts of the city with a good map. Find your own places: choose a favorite cafeteria, restaurant, bookstore, museum, and/or movie theater.
Seventh day
Meet the neighbors. Once you get acquainted with the area, it is time to get acquainted with the people.
You can approach a neighbor you see working on her garden or picking up the mail, talk to the clerk at the grocery store, or walk along someone walking their dog.
If you have children, go to school meetings, mingle with the other parents, and ask their teachers to recommend good entertainment options.